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Don't hand-feed a turkey

Wednesday 13 January, 2010 - 01:19 by todayseminars in Default

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  Hi everyone, am enjoying a few weeks on the Sunshine Coast in Queensland; sunny, blue water & 30 degrees C (well someone has to do it!).

This morning I was awoken by a tremendous noise - the neighbour to where I'm staying was feeding a flock of 20 or so wild Brush Turkeys.

They were really enjoying their feed of bread and scraps. I thought what a great person, hand-feeding them and helping them survive.

Speaking later to another local though about the experience they commented on the fact that such feeding was actually harmful to the turkeys as they couldn't actually digest the food they were being given properly, meaning they could die a painful death.

Another issue is that the turkeys were becoming reliant on the food they were being given.

Finally, attracting such large numbers of birds into one area was actually causing the ecosystem of the surrounding area to be destroyed, which meant that other animals who relied on this vegetation were being driven out and were dying as well.

All round, what appeared to be a good act of humanity was actually having disastrous results.

And isn't that like some relationships?

Hand-feeding

How often have you observed a relationship where one person hand-feeds the other one, never really letting them be as free as they are supposed to be.

They think they are being kind, but what they are actually doing is creating a reliance on themself that is so strong the poor person receiving the "help" becomes doomed because they can never act on their own. They learn to rely on the judgement of the feeder. What was meant to strengthen actually weakens.

One partner in a relationship handfeeds the other partner, checking every movement, determining every decision. A manager checks their staff's work, never giving them full ownership of the decisions they make. A teacher directs a child how to draw a flower, correcting them constantly to conform to the teacher's view of what a flower should look like, rather than letting a child discover for themselves the brilliance of their imagination.

Trust

Sometimes the hardest thing a hand-feeder can do is let go and trust.

Trust, that the other person will do what's right. Trust, that they will make a decision that's correct. Trust, that the person I employed is capable.

Trust, that mistakes can be made; and in the mistakes is the seed to greater growth.

Reliance

Handfeeding creates reliance, and in creating a reliance the hand-feeder, rather than reducing their workload, actually increases it; often creating a rod for their own back.

Let's face it, as a leader, if you can't trust the people in your team to do the job they were employed to do, than you shouldn't have hired them in the first place!

A Billion Dollar Leader trusts their people while a manager manages their staff.

Ricardo Semler must be the ultimate example of a Billion Dollar Leader who trusted his people.

At the time Semler took over his father’s Brazilian shipbuilding supplies business, SEMCO S.A., in 1980, it had started to struggle and looked like it was in real trouble. What Semler did then was absolutely revolutionary in the field of management. He handed over the running of the company to his people. Totally and completely.

He trusted them to do what was needed in order to turn the company around.

Not only did the company become extremely profitable and successful, but Semler’s leadership techniques became a case study for blue chip companies such as IBM*. SEMCO grew from a $US4m company with 90 employees in 1982, into a $US212m company with over 3,000 employees in 2003 with a growth rate of up to 40% per annum, making it one of Brazil’s leading businesses.

Semler was so successful in his leadership style that one day he arrived at work to find he no longer had an office! His team had decided he didn’t need one and they needed the space for some more important function in the process of making the business more successful.

How many managers would trust their people enough to hand over complete control of their area of operations to those very same people? 

Not that you have to do so in order to be a Billion Dollar Leader, but isn’t that what trust should be about? That the people you place in your team have what it takes to make success an everyday word?

So why is it that so many managers feel it necessary to micro-manage the people they have employed and then try to do the job those very people were hired to do?

Growth

The Brush Turkeys I saw were destroying the environment they and other animals relied on, simply because far too many of them had gathered in one spot.

A manager who hand-feeds or micro-manages their teams create an atmosphere in the workplace similar to what the turkeys had done – it is destructive.

Staff want to be respected for the job they are doing and the lack of trust is a sure sign of a lack of respect.I’ve seen such management skills destroy a growing business simply because the staff didn’t want to be there any more.

The same thing can happen in any relationship. Trusting people to do the right thing, to be the best they can be and providing them support to be just that, will gain the type of respect that not only reciprocates the trust given, but often exceeds it.

The question a Billion Dollar Leader asks is, “How do I show I trust my relationships?

If you are someone who finds they hang onto the reigns too tight, just ask yourself, “What have I really got to fear in showing trust in this person?”

Usually the answer is, “Nothing!”

After all, the people in your life can’t all be turkeys!

Let us know what you think on trust (and while you’re at it, why not complete the leadership survey on the sidebar of the http://www.todayseminars.blogspot.com/ blog?)

All success.

Go on; make your dreams a reality.

Regards

Colin Emerson

TODAY! Seminars

www.todayseminars.com.au

You can also catch us on Twitter, ecademy, Linkedin and Facebook.

 

* You can read his story in the book “Maverick” by Ricardo Semler, published by Random House Business Books.

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I've Just Won $150,000 - You Think I'd Be Happy

Friday 08 January, 2010 - 13:09 by todayseminars in Default

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I opened my mail today and there was this beautiful flyer from overseas that enticed me to accept the two, free, scratchy "lucky draw' tickets that had been enclosed with the flyer promoting a wonderful holiday destination in the Pacific.

Can you imagine how surprised I was to find that one of the tickets had won me second prize of $150,000 in the draw? Provided, of course, that I supply them with certain bank details and pay any taxes and fees from winning this prize upfront!

The Federal Police are now looking at how they can use these surprise winnings!

Based on my experience in previous lives as either a bank manager, financial consultant or security consultant (just three of many such lives that I have had), it never ceases to amaze me of the ability of people to separate themselves so easily from their money by accepting such scams. I suppose Steve Martin summed it up in the movie "Leap of Faith" by saying "thank God for suckers".

Even last night, on one of the local TV current affairs programs, there were several people who were bemoaning the fact that they had been ripped off; and we're talking in the tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars each. That's not chicken feed.

So why do people get ripped off and let themselves be fooled so easily? Simple, I think, it's easy. It's easy to hand over money in the belief that someone is going to do miracles with it, either in the form of far higher returns or amazing services. But whatever happened to "due diligence"; doing a bit of hard work and checking the facts before handing over the money?

Let's face it, if you were giving someone ten's of thousands of dollars you'd check out the facts first wouldn't you?

The scam I received in the mail, yes, they sink to a new low level and are using snail mail and not just the Internet, was obvious in some ways. First, the spelling mistakes - and I'm a terrible speller and they were still so obvious. Secondly, I was being asked to depart with my personal details and money in order to receive my "prize".

Here are some tips I learnt over the years to avoid being ripped off:

  1. If it looks to good to be true, it probably is: the president of some far off country dying and leaving a fortune, an interest rate return way over and above the market rates, investment properties offered online with guaranteed lifetime rental returns, carbon emission trading schemes that offer mega dollars in return for a small investment - should make you suspicious. I'd actually ignore them.
  2. Don't depart with your money until you have checked out all the details: use every means you have to check out the credentials of the people you intend to do business with, before giving any money over. And no, the Internet is not a sufficient check. After all anyone can have a good website with amazing looking credentials, titles and referral contacts. That doesn't make them real. Lawyers, Accountants and other business investigative groups can help you with this.
  3. Take away the emotion of the moment: if it's good enough today, it will be good enough tomorrow. Too often people let their emotions, their "gut feeling" determine their investment decision making - certainly act, but act prudently and step back to give yourself time to seek independent advice from several trusted sources. You may not like what you hear from them, you may even choose to ignore them, but at least you have an independent opinion to help;
  4. If you can't afford to loose it than it's probably a bad idea. I have seen people lose their life savings virtually overnight, in one case it was actually that. There is nothing wrong with taking a huge risk, if you can afford to lose your money. I take risks, I even advocate others taking risks; for without risk there is no advancement. But some investments scream at you not to do it - it's just too risky. There is always a safer risk for those who can't afford to lose; and finally (for this blog);
  5. Watch out for small account payment requests: this is an easy one for businesses to get caught with. Accounts receive a proper looking invoice. It's only for a small amount; maybe up to a $100 or so. They request payment. You can't remember what it is for, the invoice is probably a few months behind the reported delivery time. Or accounts don't check it and, after all, it's such a small amount, it gets paid. It only takes a thousand businesses to pay a small invoice in order for a thief to make a good living. Check all accounts your not certain of;
  6. Don't give out personal banking details. Amazingly people are so trusting at times they will hand over their bank account numbers, security access code etc to some one they hardly know. Simple rule: DON"T! Banks will not ask you for your security access code online - thief's will. Far too often people would come to the bank wondering why their accounts have been stripped of money after giving over their security code to someone or visiting a "ghost" bank web site (it looks real enough) after being asked by their bank to update their account and security details in an email. I even refuse to use my credit card online, even though I do online business. I use a Visa/ MasterCard debit card and transfer the exact amount I need into it from my main account prior to completing the online transaction. That way, even if someone does get my card details, there is never any money in the account.

While these things seem so "common sense", the level of temporary loss of such common sense means that every year, businesses and ordinary people are ripped off to the tune of millions of dollars.

Report scams and scammers to the authorities. And always remember, if it looks too good to be true, it probably is.

Shame about my $150,000 - looks like I'll have to work for it now.

All success.

Go on; make your dreams a reality.

Regards

Colin Emerson

TODAY! Seminars

www.todayseminars.com.au

You can also catch us on Twitter, ecademy, Linkedin and Facebook.


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If they are good for you, why are they banning them in the USA & Europe?

Tuesday 05 January, 2010 - 16:29 by todayseminars in Default

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You know it's that time of year, you know, lack of death, taxes and political news, when a headline on page one of a capital city news paper attracts no-one's attention on talk back or other media - or is it that I'm just a "sad-sack"?

The Canberra Times last Saturday (02 January) ran a front page story on how the USA and the EU are banning "Harmful chemicals in plastic toys, fire retardants, cosmetics and non-stick cookware", yet in Australia our authorities have assessed these same chemicals as having little or no known evidence of being harmful. In other words, they're not planning to take any action at all.

In the past 12 months I have trained over 500 Federal, State and Local government Health & Safety Represntatives in chemical safety. What shocks them most, several even said it seriously scared them, is that so little is really known about just how (un)safe the chemicals we use in the workplace and at home are. Most people assume that what we use day-in and day-out is safe.

Every year thousands of new chemical compounds are released onto the market with little, if any, full safety assessment completed. Our authorities are so undermanned that they rely mostly on the manufacturers to tell us how safe their products are. (We did that "successfully" many years ago with the tobacco industry!)

The Material Safety Data Sheets (MSDS), which every chemical producer must have for every chemical compound they produce, are supposed to tell us how safe the product is to our health. There are two problems with this self assessment of safety: (a) the MSDSs are often reliant on limited health research material and (b) are for that compound only.

One example of this is for a common household surface cleaner available cheaply at any supermarket. The MSDS sheet for this compond states that "Available data indicates that this product is not harmful (either for skin contact or inhalation).

Now they are correct when they say this of course, with the provision of the term "available data indicates". The trouble with chemical exposure though is that it can take decades before the effects are measurable - just look at asbestos - and these chemicals can be designed and released on the market within months; so much for research!

So how safe is a well-informed person buying this product (after all the MSDS indicates it is safe) when the Federal Government's October 1996 161 page NICNAS report for one of the main ingrediants for this product, something called 2-Butoxyethanol, states, amongst other discovered acute effects, "chronic effects on blood, kidney and liver" and "ready absorbption through skin"?

One of the substances listed as being banned in The Canberra Times article are phalates, these are the chemical compounds that give that "new car" smell people love. They are also found in cosmetics, children's toys, hair sprays and other personal care products.

So how safe are they? A 2003 Mt Sinai School of Medicine report indicates they are known to cause birth defects in male reproductive organs. CDC reports in 2000 and 2003 link phalates to DNA damage to sperm, as does as does a 2002 report by Rozati et al.

How bad is this really to us? A 1998 Monash University report indicates that"one man in 25 is sub fertile". A 2000 report from Denmark gave figures of roughly 30% of 19 to 20 year old men having sperm densities so low they are likely to impair fetility, while a 1992 report by Carlsen et al reports a 40% decline in sperm count over the second half of the 20th century.

Strangely that is the same half of the century when household chemical production really took off. Am I being paranoid?

So, as someone who talks to hundreds of people each year about this, what can we do to reduce our exposure to these products? Simple, but not so! You can't avoid them totally, but you can read the labels and shop around for products that don't contain these potentially harmful chemicals.

Secondly, give your body a fighting chance. Does your diet, yes diet, support your body in getting rid or fighting the effects of these chemicals in the body? There are things you can do.

Thirdly, for the radical minded, lobby that the Federal government in following the USA and Europe in banning these products, after all we don't mind following when it puts the lives of our youth at risk on the front line. Why not when trying to save them on the home front?

Yours in Safety

Colin
TODAY! Seminars
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America 4

Wednesday 12 August, 2009 - 13:44 by todayseminars in Default

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Well the competition has just finished and, unfortunately, I didn't 
make it through to the Grand Final on Saturday.
So now I can relax and see the wonderful sights around here. The good news is though that an Aussie from Queensland who competed in the other division in the contest (so I didn't go up against him) is through to the finals. Now for next year and getting here again to give it another shot! I'm off to eat.

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America 3

Wednesday 12 August, 2009 - 03:53 by todayseminars in Default

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Well, it's now day three in America and the first contest is only a few hours away.

This is an amazing place - America. There is a total contrast in features between the east coast and the west coast. And the people think we have a funny accent!

Arrived at LA last Sunday (early Monday morning Aus time) and during the two hour stop over all we did was clear customs, collect or luggage and then rebook the luggage back in for the flight from LA to JFK - even though we were staying on the same aircraft.

Just outside of LA you started to see some amazing countryside, with the Grand Canyon and the Dessert. It is amazing how the first peoples moved from the east coast to the west coast (California) across such barren land in the wagons they used back then. True grit!

Arrived JFK and because of some interesting issues with Visa cards (some places don't accept the Visa or Mastercard debit cards - even though we were all told that they could be used as normal - there were several of us who were caught out this way. So much for using your own money)

To cut a long story short (will write about this later) spent night in New York at the bus interchange waiting for the 4.45am coach to the MGM Grand resort in Mashantucket.

We all arrived by 9.45 local (some 36 hours awake!)

An amazing story though of an amazing Aussie couple who tried to help. Because our debit cards weren't accepted, this couple heard of our troubles and were willing to use their credit card just so that we could all move on - they didn't know us from Jack, but wre willing to help - A HUGE AND PUBLIC "THANKS!". Although we couldn't take them up on the offer their generosity to help is noted.

I'm now only a few hours out from the first contest. Have had our briefings an hour ago and microphone checks are in an hour and a half. I have drawn speaker 6 out of the 9 speakers in my contest (there is an identical contest happening at the same time with 9 other speakers from around the world, including the other two Aussies, so hopefully we can have two of us Aussies in the finals).

So I'm off to relax, run the speech through and through for the next 2 hours just to make certain it is absolutley for the contest in 41/2 hours.

All I can do now is hope that the judges like the speech enough to win!

Will keep you posted. 

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America 2

Monday 03 August, 2009 - 13:45 by todayseminars in Default

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Well, only one week to go! It's only when it is so close that you realise that there is so much to do and so little time to do it all in.

 The speeches are now finalised and being practiced. In many ways it now comes down to the "on the day" performance. One thing is certain, to prepare a convincing 7 minute speech is a lot harder than a 30/45 minute one.

 My speeches would not be what they are now without the help of a lot of people. To try to thankyou all individually here would lead to me leaving people out - purely because of my grey moments. That individual thanks will be done in another way.

 However, that does not mean I cannot thank the clubs who have helped me on this road to the World Championships. The feedback and support you have given is invaluable. Indeed, the Interdistrict Final speech had it's shakey start at the Parramatta Club and through the feedback has gained strength and clarity in its message and presentation.

 The Toastmasters clubs that I have managed to attend (there were more offers than I could attend) were: Parramatta, Ginninderra, Canberra Twighlight, Gungahlin Lakes, Training in Focus, Canberra Gourmet, Rooty Hill, Kippax, Wagga Wagga and, my own home club, Majura.

 Also to District 70 Executive - thanks. The belief that everone is showing me makes me feel that it IS possible!

 When I compete on Tuesday 11th  and the following Saturday I will take a little bit of each club and each member with me - it will be a the whole of District 70 on that stage, not just me.

 A special thanks also to Brett Rutledge, a previous winner of the World Championships - and one of the few people from outside of the USA to win. He has provided me with some invaluable feedback from someone who has "been there and done it". You can find out more about Brett at his web site www.brettrutledge.com (especially if you are looking for an entertaining and gifted speaker for a conference - besides myself of course!)

 To everyone going to America - I look forward to making this happen with you there.

 I arrive in Massantucket on Sunday night - so let's catch up for an ale of two at the Grand.

 Making Dreams A Reality

 Colin

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America 1

Monday 27 July, 2009 - 16:29 by todayseminars in Default

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Well, it’s now down to two weeks before I head off to Mashantucket for the Toastmaster’s International Speech Contest finals.

Time goes so quickly. It only seems like a couple of weeks ago that I won the District 70 contest and had plenty of time to plan my next speeches. Now it is starting to sink in that time is short!

To date winning the right to represent District 70 and Australia at the finals has been a mind-blowing experience. The level of support has been absolutely amazing – not only from my friends, work colleagues, own club (Majura Toastmasters) and Division, but also from clubs and areas whose members have never met me before.

To those who don’t know, to compete in the finals you have to prepare two new speeches. Thanks to the ability to deliver these speeches in clubs all around ACT and NSW I have been able to fine tune them to the point where I am confident that they have a great chance of taking me to the top.

If I do win, I know one thing, such a win will be a team effort and each of you will have a part in making it happen. Toastmasters have proved themselves to be people who really do want people to be their very best. Thank you!

Over the coming weeks I will keep you informed of my experience. I will also let you know a bit more about the people who have helped me get to America.

You will be able to follow me on this blog, via my website or via my Facebook. There will be links to all these sites on the webpage www.todayseminars.com.au 

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Taking a shoe for the President

Friday 02 January, 2009 - 13:42 by todayseminars in Default

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Everyone’s probably seen the pictures of George Dubba having shoes thrown at him by now. 

On the morning of the news breaking I was having breakfast at a roadhouse café at Eaglehawk outside of Canberra and we were laughing at the fact that even though two shoes were thrown at the President, none of his security detail jumped in front of him. 

The cook, one of those wisend characters that such roadhouses seem to create, gave the best response – “Why would they? After all which Secret Service agent would want to go through the rest of their career being known as the one who took a shoe for the President?” 

Loved it!

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Resolution rambling

Friday 02 January, 2009 - 13:13 by todayseminars in Default

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2009 – where did 2008 go? 

It’s day two already and I bet some of those New Year’s resolutions are already broken by some. One of mine is not to lose my wireless modem while moving again (having moved my business to Canberra) – it’s so nice to be back on line.  

One of the good things about the new year is the chance to set some targets for the coming twelve months; something to aim for. For me it’s a busy time as I work with friends setting targets and preparing for coaching them in their businesses and personal areas throughout the year. 

For those who struggle with goal setting (not a term I personally like) here are some tips that might help you in your journey to achieving the things that are important to you. 

1. Set the target: sounds like a no brainer, but how can you aim at something unless you know what it is you’re aiming for?  

I normally look at 5 Area of Life© when setting my targets – Family (those closest to us), Health (emotional, physical, mental), Security (work, $, future etc), Personal (self education, personal development, spiritual) and Spheres of Influence© (friends, associates, clubs, committees etc). 

2. Focus on the Today! not the big picture: Once you know what it is you want to achieve simply ask yourself each day - "What is it that I can do, right here, right now Today!, given everything that is happening in my life right now, that will allow me to take one step closer to my target" ©    

By focusing on the Today! we concentrate on those small, achievable steps rather than the one large, sometimes frightening, target we want to achieve. We focus on what we can do.  

For instance, one of my targets is to run 10km in 50 minutes by the end of the year. Fact is I won’t be able to run that speed for a while. In training, some days I will be able to get close while on others, because of various reasons, I won’t even get within cooee. But each day, my target is to do the best I can on the day – even if that means I’m slower today then I was yesterday. 

The secret of this approach is to just do the very best I can do each and every day.  

It also means that I don’t beat myself up for not achieving my ultimate target, but allows me to recognise that I did achieve something – which is the third step. 

3. Recognise your achievements – every day: One of the things I seen most people do when chasing a dream is to forget to recognise their achievements and to focus too much on what they didn’t achieve (how depressing!).

At the end of the day, instead of looking at what you didn't achieve, look at what you did do - after all, if you have done the very best you can on any given day then that's all that can be asked of you - recognise it as an achievement. 

The people I coach all write down their achievements in each of the 5 Areas© every night (I also get them to do this at the end of each week and each month). That way they have a constant reminder that they are Achievers and are working their way towards their bigger targets.

This approach is so much better for our self-belief than focusing on what we failed to do each day.  And it doesn’t matter how small the step is; it’s still an achievement.

After all, one small step each day of the year in one Area of Life© will place you 365 steps closer to your dream at the end of the year and that’s got to be better than no steps at all. In the 5 Areas© that equates to 1825 steps – now that’s something to celebrate.      

4. Review – am I on track?: The final stage is to look at what I’ve achieved and assess what it is I need to do from this point on to reach my bigger target.

The minimum I do this is monthly as this allows me to set the target for the next month. From there I can set the weekly targets. From there I’m back to step 2, the daily targets. 

All success in 2009. Go on; make your dreams a reality.  

© Today! Seminars 2002.

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Following on from the recession blog

Friday 14 November, 2008 - 12:07 by todayseminars in Default

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Following the Recession blog, I have been asked how someone on a self managed fund should react to the current economic situation – given the negative returns being experienced in the share market. 

The difficulty in  providing an answer to this is that everyone’s situation is different; so every person requires specific guidance based on their personal circumstances – which is why I always advice people to seek professional, independent and qualified financial planning advice before doing anything with their finances. 

Nether-the-less, here are some tips that might help you in making a wise decision: 

1.      Don’t panic: people often make financially fatal decisions when panicked. I have seen people lose their whole life savings simply because they acted first without getting all the facts and investigating their best options. Don’t be caught out by the “if you don’t sign now you’ll miss out” option. If it’s good today it’ll probably still be good tomorrow.

2.      Take a long term view: look at your accounts and ask, “Is the money I’m losing coming off my principal or the interest I’ve earned on my principal?” Losing off your principal means it is coming off your money. Losing off the interest means you are losing on the banks money. Long term what is the interest earned on your investment – has it and will it continue to grow long term? The long term return is usually (not always) a better indicator of the safety of your investment log term. Remember, downturns don’t last a lifetime – the results of bad investment options do!

3.      Can I cut back on my drawings for a short time?: Most economic downturns are temporary; maybe lasting 18 to 24 months. Can you cut back or delay your spending for that amount of time until you can again start earning higher returns on your investments? If you don’t have one, it might be a good time to do a budget and plan ahead.

4.      Check the fine print: Read all the terms and conditions. Too many people end up being locked into high fee, high penalty investments simply because they didn’t check the fine print. It means they can’t move if needed, pay more than they should or don’t earn as much as they need. Often that’s money down the drain.

5.      If it’s too good to be true, it probably is: If the returns being offered seem way over the top of current market rates, then chances are it may just be too good to be true and could end up costing you more than you bargained for. It’s amazing that even today, with all the media attention it gets, people are still conned by email or internet scams or unscrupulous investment promoters; all promising amazing returns or “guaranteed” above market earnings. Chances are you are better off throwing your money out of the window of a moving car and hoping you will get your money back as putting your money into these scams. These vultures rely on one principal – there’s a sucker born every minute!

6.      Do your homework and assess the risk on return: As a rule, the greater the return, the greater the risk. What most respectable investment advisors should tell you that on average shares can expect a negative return 1 in every 4*  years, property once every 1 in every ten*  years and cash negligible* years. Higher return markets can have an even higher rate of risk, even to the point of losing their total value overnight (Just ask anyone who invested in companies like Pyramid Building Society – yes, 15, 20, 25%+ returns sound good, but really!). Before investing in a riskier investment ask yourself, “Can I afford to lose this money?”

7.      Set your limits and establish your options before you invest: Ask yourself, “What will I do if ….?” Regularly review these options – annually at the minimum or whenever you have a major life event. Plan ahead and help yourself avoid panicking when things do change.

8.      Remember, by the time you read about a hot tip, chances are so has everyone else: don’t be caught out by those “get-into-this-now” tips – seek independent advice and do your homework.

9.      Get independent advice: is your advisor linked to one particular fund or investment type or are they truly independent? Watch out for advisors who are directly linked to the investment you are making – for example, I’ve seen some property investment sales pitches include promoting their own finance advisor and property valuer, and financier; each with a stake in your sale (of course this is all made to make it easy for you to get into debt). Do they provide a range of investment options? What upfront, ongoing and exit fees will you pay? What commissions or trailing commissions will the advisor receive on the products they are selling or do they receive one set fee or no fee at all no matter which product they sell? Are they providing advice that will give you or them the best return on your investment? Is it better for you to pay an upfront fee rather than paying commissions etc? Check around and choose your advisor carefully. Check their credentials – are they FSRA accredited? If not, steer clear.

10.  What will the cost to you be if you do change your investment strategy: often there are penalty, exit or entry fees payable whenever you change investments. Sometimes what you loose in fees outdoes the cost of staying put long term.

11.  How long will it take to recover those lost fees etc if you do change strategies?: How quickly it takes to recover your loses (all fees, charges and lost interest etc) and return to your current position is the starting point for choosing to change strategies. You then also have to assess what the growth potential is over time. You may find your current strategy, while losing short term, is still a better option once you look at all the costs and long term returns involved.

12.  Would you be better off letting someone else manage your investments?: This is one way to avoid the emotional attachment to any decision making you have to make in relation to your retirement funding. There are many low cost, good return superannuation funds available to look after your money. Generally I have found that the industry superfunds tend to have a lower fee/ higher return position than their retail fund manager cousins. After all, why spend your retirement worrying about your investments (which is a full time job even for the professionals – and even they don’t get it right all of the time)? Many of these superfunds now even let you change asset classes and portfolio options on a regular basis with no fees attached. This still gives you a degree of control over your money without the day-to-day worry. 

* Source: “Frontier Investment Consulting”

Hope this helps. Probably gives more to think about than providing direct answers. Talk to an accredited professional – they can assess your position and tell you what’s best for you and your needs.  All success!

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Rudy - Heart of a hero

Sunday 02 November, 2008 - 12:45 by todayseminars in Default

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Over the years I have had the privilege of working with some magnificent, inspirational people; most of them being just ordinary people who have dared to challenge their paradigm of life and change.

The joy of what I do is that every day I am inspired by how, when given a chance, the guidance and support, these people grab hold of an opportunity to change, to make a difference in their lives and run with it.


Some time ago I was working with a group of kids who the courts had decided needed one more chance to change before being given the opportunity to spend time Now, some of these kids were as tough as and the sights they had seen are difficult for most people to comprehend.

But I’ll always remember one young man who broke down in tears at the end of one of the movies I usually show during my workshops. It’s not a normal thing for me to get people crying, but this young person was touched by the message in the film; a message that inspired him to believe, for the first time in his life it seems, that there was hope for him.

The message of that story forms a part of the opening chapter of one of my books.

Over the next few weeks I will take extracts from this particular book and post it on the blog site. Hopefully you will be inspired like the young man in my group.


The story in the movie is the story of Daniel “Rudy” Ruettiger, an American College Football hero who gave all he had (“Rudy – Heart of a Hero”; 1993, Tristar Pictures Inc.).


As a child Rudy’s dream was to play for his beloved Notre Dame College football team.  Most of his friends and relatives laughed at him.  He was too short, too slow, his grades were too low and, he was told, his rightful place was where his family lived – simply because, well, that’s all that could be expected for his family.  Besides, his grandfather had tried to follow his dream once and had failed – so that’s what following your dream gets you.  Almost nobody believed in Rudy, and almost everyone ridiculed him.


Yet, in spite of all this opposition, Rudy still believed in his dream.  Only one friend shared Rudy’s belief.  And when this friend died, Rudy, now a grown man, packed his bags and went to fight for the right to play for his beloved Notre Dame.


Rudy had two problems however. One, he hadn’t even enrolled at the university and secondly, the university wouldn’t accept him because his grades from high school just weren’t good enough.


That didn’t stop Rudy.  So strong was his dream, so strong the desire, Rudy travelled the miles believing he would make it.  He went back to high school and applied himself to his studies with a fierce determination. He worked as part of the university’s football stadium maintenance team to support himself.


When his grades improved, he applied to the university – and was rejected.  Again he applied – again they rejected him.


And again – rejected.


People were still laughing at him.


Because he couldn’t afford proper student accommodation, he lived in the change rooms of the football stadium.  Things weren’t going as he’d planned.  But still he believed.


At the end of two years he applied again – and was accepted. 


As soon as he was accepted by Notre Dame he tried out for the football team at the selection trials. For days he put 110% effort into each drill.  He was finally living his dream.  He knew that only the very best would ever be selected for this team.  It didn’t matter to him that everyone else he was trying out against was bigger and stronger and had far more athletic ability.  He tackled them – and was tackled by them; hit hard time and time again.  But each time he was hit he got up and said:  “I can do it Coach, I can do it!” 


His attitude was noticed and he was kept on as part of the training team. Not the team that ran onto the field and played in the competition every week. Rather, he played on the team that ran the opposition team plays at training and took all the hard hits.

Every week he continued to put in a 110% effort. He annoyed other players, those who weren’t good enough to make the major side, because he trained so hard: “Your John Wayne b/s out there is making us all look bad, so why don’t you dial it down a notch. Everyone is getting sick and tired of hearing, ‘Why don’t you put out more like Ruettiger’. It’s not worth it you know.”  His response to any criticism, “If I cool it I won’t be helping you get ready for the next week’s games”. To him there was a purpose to his efforts. 


His real dream though, was to play in a real game, not to be just a part of the training squad.  Each week before a game he would look for his name on the player’s list.  It was never there.  He was good enough to be part of the training squad, but was never selected for the main game.  Still people laughed at him.  Even his family didn’t believe he was part of the team because his name never appeared in the starting line up.


After two years of being on “the second team”, Rudy faced the last game of the last season before he was to graduate from University.  If he didn’t play in this game, he would never play.  Hopefully, he looked at the list.  Again his name was missing.  After all his effort, after all the laughs he had received, his dream, it seemed, had come down to this – nothing!  His family may have been right after all; chasing his dream had only lead to failure.  Maybe it would have been better to stay home.


Sure, he would end up with a college degree.  But, so what!  What would that be worth if his dream was unfulfilled?  Utterly devastated, Rudy, for the first time ever, didn’t go to training.


He quit.


Life’s disappointments can make any of us quit.


It’s as if these disappointments are sent to challenge us - to see just how serious we are about the things we say we want. They appear before us, just like a hill in a running race. It’s probably the last thing you really feel like facing at that time. And the hardest part of running up any hill can be that part just below the peak, when your legs are hurting and your lungs are screaming for air. Yet, with a bit more effort you can see the other side, you can make it to the easy side of the hill. But if you quit and go back, then you’ll never get to see the view from the top or find out just how easy the other side of the hill is.


Rudy’s boss, who’d watched the effort Rudy had put in over the years, told Rudy that if he walked away now, after all his effort, then he would have to live with the pain of regret for the rest of his life.  He told him to turn around, go back and not to give up. “Give it everything you have, and then, when there is nothing else that you can do, walk away knowing that you gave it all that you could” – no excuses.


Rudy went back to his final training session. His team mates, once so critical of him, now saw him enter the arena ready to give it 110% one more time for his team, despite his own personal pain – and they applauded him. Later that day the coach was approached by all the players named in the team, each one willing to give up their spot so that Rudy could be named and play for Notre Dame.


Because of Rudy’s commitment to his dream and because of the respect he had earned from the other players, the coach was forced to add Rudy’s name to the playing list.


On match day Rudy was asked by the team captain to lead the “Fighting Irish” of Notre Dame onto the field. This was recognition for the effort he had put in. As his family, friends and boss watched from the stands, Rudy led the team on to the field.


The game progressed and with only a few minutes left to play Rudy, although named as part of the team, still hadn’t been allowed onto the field to play. Despite approaches from the team captain and other members of the training staff, the coach refused put Rudy on. After all, this was a competition, the real thing. He wasn’t going to let sentiment stop his team from taking the competition points.


Rudy’s dream of actually playing in a game seemed out of reach. And if he didn’t participate in at least one play, then his name would never appear as someone, one of the few, who had ever played for Notre Dame. Then the unbelievable happened.

Beginning with the captain, a slow handclap and a chant of “Rudy! Rudy!” commenced and soon a stadium of thousands of Notre Dame fans took up the chant.


Reluctantly, with less then a minute to play, the coach sent Rudy on to the field. His dream had come true. He participated in one play. Notre Dame held on. There was time for only one more play and the season would be over. The ball was thrown to the opposition Quarterback. Rudy went for the tackle and brought the Quarterback down.


End of game. End of season. End of career.


Rudy was chaired from the field by his team mates, one of only a few ever to receive that honour. For all his efforts, Rudy was on the field for less than one minute.


But he had achieved his dream. He had done what others had said was impossible.

THE HERO
Rudy was a hero – not necessarily a winner or a star.  He was a hero because he had shown that dreams can come true and that being an achiever does not have to mean coming first or being the best or being a star. 

For winners, they can be beaten, and a star may burn bright for a time before fading.


But heroes, achievers – their heroics, their struggles, the symbolism of their achievements live on forever, inspiring others to achieve great things in their lives.


And heroes don’t have to be sporting champions or headline seekers.  Each day millions of heroes go about their everyday tasks unaware that their achievements are inspiring others.  People watch each other.  They see something in another person that makes them say “They amaze me, how do they handle things so well?  I wish I could be like them.”


The quiet achiever at work, although never fully recognised by management, inspires all those around them with their ability to get the job done.  The teacher who inspires a desire for greater learning.  The nurse or doctor who daily save lives or brings forth new life.  The person who, through his/her struggle, rises from the depths of poverty.


Everyday people doing everyday things, inspiring others.  Playing the game to the best of their ability with all the talent and skills that they can muster.  Heroes who don’t even know they are heroes.  Surprised and humbled when someone says to them, “You are my inspiration.”  As a parent there is no greater honour than hearing a child say, “I want to be just like you.”


Heroes can be like a woman we know – a mother of six, four of whom have a rare disease that will see them face death in a few short years.  Each day she cares for them with the love and commitment that makes her an inspiration to others.


Under such adverse conditions many people would find it easier to give up, or maybe just give a half-hearted try, knowing that they can give up if they want to.  Settling for second best. And no-one would blame them.


But for her, and thousands like her, who in their daily lives face adversity, winning is not necessarily the objective.  Neither is accepting second-best.


Giving it all they have, doing their absolute best with what they have, under the conditions they have been given, becomes their major focus.


At the end of the day, people like this can face each race knowing that if they do their absolute best and win, then they will receive the glory given to the winner.  And, if they give it all they can and don’t win then they can walk away knowing they have done their very best.


Either way, they can walk away an achiever.

LaughingAll success and make your dreams a reality

Sections of this blog are taken directly from "How an ant ate an elephant - Achieving the complete & happy life you deserve", copyright TODAY! Seminars 2001, 2004, 2008.

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I refuse to participate in any recession

Sunday 02 November, 2008 - 11:51 by todayseminars in Default

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First the good news; leading economists have successfully predicted 20 of the last 4 recessions.

Now the bad news; they are predicting the 21st.

(Before I go any further, and to satisfy some government regulations, I am not a financial advisor, property development professional and the opinions in this blog are just that, personal opinions. Before anyone takes any actions that could affect them financially, they should seek the advice of a relevant industry professional). Can’t be too careful here.

Please forgive me for seeming to make light of the effects of a recession or economic downturn (I'm not). I know that in every economic downtown people suffer, jobs are lost, businesses can close down, people can go bankrupt, lose their homes or retirement funds. Just two weeks ago I had the extremely unpleasant task of making the members of a magnificent team redundant, for no other reason than the corporation said that hundreds of jobs had to go, such are the machinations of a major corporate identity. In the past, economic downturns have seen me lose jobs and close businesses I had struggled to establish. It’s not easy.

But from every period of economic turbulence there appears great opportunity that calls out for the brave soul to take hold of and run with. And for those who see the opportunities it becomes a question of, “Recession! What recession?” It becomes a matter of perspective.

Just look at how people are responding to the current turmoil happening in Australia. I would suggest that 90% of the problem has nothing to do with reality – it’s mainly to do with people’s perceptions of what is happening.

And when enough people start to say that things are on the nose then the greater perception takes hold that there is something smelly happening. Perception fulfils its own destiny and becomes a reality.

Just look at these few issues that seem to carry a lot of weight in the media and look at how perception is different to reality.

Perception: That money in banks is not secure. The truth is that nothing can be further from the truth. Australia’s banks are in a reasonably strong position. The perception is money is at risk. The result is that people panic and feel insecure. Yes, there is some downturn in returns due to exposure to the international funding issues and credit is hard to come by (which may not be that bad a thing), but that doesn’t mean we will lose our money. After all, all Australian banks are required to keep a certain amount of money in reserve just for this very reason.

So what happens when people panic? The government reacts, businesses and people go into kneejerk response mode and next second we have another, unpredicted, crisis. The self fulfilling prophesy becomes a reality of sorts.

Perception: Now is a bad time to invest in property. The truth is property prices are lower in some areas than they have for a while, interest rates (when measured against long term trends) are reasonable, rents are high and vacancy rates are low; so why wouldn’t anyone look at investing in property?

As an ex-bank manager in mortgages the problem isn’t the price of housing or the level of interest rates. It’s a matter of affordability.

It used to distress me to see people knocked back by my bank heading off to another lender to get a loan when I knew they couldn’t afford the loan if rates moved up. They were flying that close to affordability. (And boy, did you cope it when you would tell them they couldn’t afford it). I’m telling my kids to buy – right now if they can.

Here is a tip. If you want to know if you can afford to buy, ask your bank to calculate your loan affordability with a 2% higher rate of interest then they currently offer. Why do that? It shows you where you are positioned should rates go up, which is what has caught so many people these days.

Of course, it should go without saying, but good credit/investment advise is always worth seeking before making any investments like this.

Perception: I have to stick to a secure job. The truth is that there is no such thing as job security – as people tend to think of job security. Companies do and will lay off staff if they need to at a drop of a hat.

The reality is that when people talk of job security, what they are really talking about is income security. (Robert Kiyosaki of Cash Flow Quadrant fame talks about income security as a key strategy for life).  Solve the income security problem and job security becomes less of an issue.

The key? I have worked with people from all levels of income, from long term unemployed onwards. The key to change in every person’s life that has changed is asking the question: “What have I got to do in order to secure my income for the future?” More education? Different job skills? Establishing a savings plan or doing a budget? Changing jobs or even careers? Finding another income stream? Investing? Personal development? Coaching? Going into business for yourself?

The truth is that income security only comes about by the actions I take to change a given situation. Even $5 a week saved and set aside can make a difference. Cutting back on spending and getting rid of credit cards, paying them out etc can make a difference in improving cash flow.

Economic downturn is not easy for anyone. People are and will hurt. I have found though that even the worst of times in my life have had a point of turnaround. That opportunity presents itself when I least expect it and that if I take the time to look at what I need to do to change the situation, to prepare myself to take advantage of situations when they come, to be open minded when the opportunities present themselves, then, and only then, can I look recession in the eye and say, “Recession! What recession?”

All success and make your dreams a reality.

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For my Dad

Saturday 01 November, 2008 - 14:15 by todayseminars in Default

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Hi everyone, sorry I’ve taken some time in getting the next blog online. I was going to publish a blog on the recession last week, but with the loss of my father two weeks ago it’s taken me a bit of time to get back on track. (The recession blog is being posted straight after this one).

The loss of someone you love tends to focus you on the important things in life – important things like family and friends – after all everything else seems to pale to insignificance compared to those.

My Dad and I weren’t that close these past few years, more my positioning than his. My Dad was one of those people to whom life throws a curve ball and just keeps chucking them. In some ways life let Dad down; but he never let life down. To him the important things were his partner, his children and the people he cared for, especially in his work as a hospital orderly. He had a heart bigger than Pharlap. And he loved his Sharks (Cronulla Sutherland) rugby league club. And when Dad grew a rose he grew a rose!

While funerals are generally considered a sad event, in many ways Dad’s funeral was a celebration of a simple man who shared his life with others in a big way. And it was a reason to bring the family together again – a real positive. Which is the point of this blog.

I spend most of my life working with people in their personal life and in business coaching them towards the targets that are important to them. And sometimes I find we are living in a world where it is easy to lose track of people, we are so busy and our lives are so full. My resolve is to ensure that in my busy life I make more time for my friends and my family; to make certain I just touch base with them on a regular basis and share time with them.

In our busy lives, imagine spending just a few more minutes of each week touching base with those people who are important to us, to tell them that we care about them.

I missed the last few years of my Dad’s life, and missed out on a chance to tell him one more time “I love you”. By the time I tried to find him (I had a strange feeling some months ago but couldn’t locate him) it was too late. Maybe there is someone in your life with whom you have lost touch but have thought you want to find them – even just to let them know you think of them. My advise, go, see if you can find them – don’t leave it ‘til it’s too late.

Life is too short to miss out on any of it.

Remember; live like there is no tomorrow, dance like there is no-one watching, love like there are no broken hearts, smile like the sun that shines above every cloudy day, strive to achieve like there is no failure and give some of your self so the world can share in the brilliance that is you.

To my Dad

Colin

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Where is the leadership? What do you think?

Friday 10 October, 2008 - 11:02 by todayseminars in Default

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Leadership!

Since time immemorial people of all races, creeds and social standing have followed the call of great leaders.Nations have risen from nothing or have been conquered; seas have been sailed in voyages of discovery into the unknown, or for trade; people have given their lives or been given life; ideas have been acted on and history made—all at the behest of a great leader; King Richard I, Queen Victoria, George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, “Weary” Dunlop, Sir Arvi Parbo, all names synonymous with strong, positive leadership.

Conversely, acts of cruelty, deception, war, death, destruction, atrocity, famine and murder have been carried out by people following a leader who has led them on the wrong path. One only needs to recall the names of Hitler, Pol Pot, Stalin, and Jim Jones of the Jonestown mass suicide infamy to see that the charismatic qualities of a great leader can be used for ignoble purposes.

In today’s world, corporations have been born and destroyed by the implementation of qualities and ethics endorsed by the leaders of those companies. Names like those of Richard Branson, Lee Iacocca and Bob Ansett stand out against their ethical opposites such as Bernard Ebbers, Kenneth Lay and Christopher Skase.Many books, thousands of words, have been written in order to describe the illusive characteristics that make a leader great.

Anyone wanting to know how to be a great leader can borrow them from any local library. Libraries are filled with biographies of great leaders – biographies that expose their actions, their achievements and their skill at making the impossible possible.

Yet somehow, when it comes to leadership in the workplace we seem to have missed the point of what makes a great leader great. So often the qualities that make a leader even mediocre seem lacking in business and the community in general.

Some would even suggest that many of our current leaders are more concerned with their multi-million dollar payout than with the effect their decisions have on the people in their business and society at large. Just look at the effect the decisions like those of the Lehman Brothers leadership has had on the world.

Yet poor leadership doesn't just happen at the top end of businesses. Take an example of a recent restructure in a major company. After announcing that there would be major redundancies the senior leadership then went into a virtual cocoon; failing to communicate (except for one or two emails - a totally personal touch don't you think?) with their staff in the weeks (not days!) between the announcement and the actual event of laying staff off.

The result was to have a group of staff blindly wondering about their future, guided only by rumour and their emotions. Even when the announcements were made their was silence from the senior management.

What would it have cost for the senior management to walk around and, during the weeks leading up the the sacking of so many staff, letting them know what is happening (even to know that there is nothing happening is news to those whose lives are placed on hold while wondering about their future)? Or what about walking round to each person in the group and touching base with them before they leave?

A true leader would have done that!

It may not have been easy, but sometimes it is the simple things that show the true qualities of a leader. It is simple things - like touching base with their team members, of being there with them in a difficult time, of sharing the bad, and not just the good, with them - that distinguishes a great leader from a poor manager.

So, what are your experiences of good leadership or poor management?

Who inspires you as a great leader?

What do you look for in a great leader?

What annoys you most about bad leadership?

Do you think there is a difference between being a leader and being a manager?

I look forward to your comments.

Copyright 2008 TODAY! Seminars

 

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Welcome

Friday 10 October, 2008 - 09:48 by todayseminars in Default

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Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my blog. Hopefully, as time goes on, I can provide you with some points of discussion.

As a speaker I am constantly looking at gaining other people's opinions on the various topics I talk about; mainly Leadership, business deveopment (small & large), personal development and sales.

You can always check out our web site for full details of who we ae and what we do.

 I look forward to hearing from you.

Regards

Colin

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